Golden Eagles News · Sports Leader: Virtue of the Week – LOYALTY


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The Story of Ian & Larissa

INTRODUCTION

Our virtue this week is LOYALTY – The strength to make a cause more important than yourself enabling you to make sacrifices to achieve it. Our school, our team, our family, our togetherness is that cause.

PRAYER

Lord, You were the perfect example of LOYALTY as You made us more important than Yourself and You made so many sacrifices for us. Help us to be LOYAL to one another. May we be more and more like You each day. Does anyone have any prayer intentions? Who wants to lead us in a Glory Be?

STORY

Damon and Pythias

There is a great story from the 4th century B.C. It takes place in the Sicilian city-state of Syracuse. Damon and Pythias had been the best of friends since childhood. Each trusted the other wholeheartedly and each knew in his heart that there was nothing he would not do for his friend. Now the ruler of Syracuse grew annoyed at Pythias for the political speeches that he was giving, announcing that no man should have absolute power in society.

The king summoned Pythias and ordered him to retract his statements or be put to death. Pythias refused. He would retract nothing because he believed that what he was teaching was the truth. “Then you will die”, said the king. “Do you have any last requests?” “Yes. Let me go home just long enough to say goodbye to my wife and children.” The king would have none of it. “I will give you a pledge,” Pythias said.

At that moment Damon spoke up and said that he would remain there in prison until his friend returned. The king was amazed that anyone would be such a friend. He told Damon, “You must suffer the same consequences if your friend does not return on time. You realize this?” “He will keep his word,” Damon replied. “I have no doubt of that.”

The appointed day for Pythias’ return had arrived yet Pythias had not. “It seems your friend has not turned up,” the king laughed. “What do you think of him now?” “He is my friend,” Damon answered. “I trust him.” Even as he spoke, the doors flew open, and Pythias staggered into the room. He was pale and bruised as he rushed to the arms of his friend.

“It seemed like everything was against me. My ship was wrecked, I was mugged by thieves … but I refused to give up hope, and at last I’ve made back in time. I am ready to receive my sentence of death.” The king was astonished. He had never seen such dedicated friendship. His eyes and his heart were opened and he changed his mind. “The sentence is revoked,” he declared. “I never believed such faith and loyalty could exist between two men. You have shown me how wrong I was, and it is only right that you have your freedom. But I ask that you do me one favor and teach me how to be a part of so worthy a friendship”

QUESTIONS

Why do you think Damon was willing to risk his life for his friend?

What inspires you to be loyal to your friends and family?

RESOLUTION

Let’s live today with a full heart, a heart that is LOYAL and willing to put the others first.

MENTORING

Who inspires you the most to be more LOYAL?

Tell me about a person who has been especially LOYAL to you during your life.

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Charlotte’s Web Movie Clip: A Promise for Wilbur

PRAYER

Lord, we praise You for being so good to us. We want to be more like You each day. Thank you for helping us be more LOYAL today.

Help us all to be more LOYAL this week by cheering up someone who might be down.

WAY TO LIVE THE VIRTUE THIS WEEK

Cheer up someone who might be down this week.

Encourage students to tell their parents and siblings the story.

QUOTES

MONDAY

“Christ does not force our will, He only takes what we give Him. But He does not give Himself entirely until He sees that we yield ourselves entirely to Him.” – St Teresa of Avila

TUESDAY

“Lack of loyalty is one of the major causes of failure in every walk of life” – Napoleon Hill

WEDNESDAY

“Unless you can find some sort of loyalty, you cannot find unity and peace in your active living” – Josiah Royce

THURSDAY

“Loyalty is a feature in a boy’s character that inspires boundless hope.” – Sir Robert Baden-Powell

FRIDAY

“I go to Mass before I go to work. The reason for that is not just habit. It gives you a centering… starts you in a way of doing a secular job the right way for the right reason.” – Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas

SATURDAY

“An ounce of loyalty is worth a pound of cleverness.” – Elbert Hubbard

SUNDAY

“We are all in the same boat in a stormy sea, and we owe each other a terrible loyalty.: – G.K. Chesterton

BIBLE QUOTES

Daniel 11: 32
He shall seduce with intrigue those who violate the covenant; but the people who are loyal to their God shall stand firm and take action.

1 Timothy 1: 2
To Timothy, my loyal child in the faith: Grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord.

SAINT

St. Mary Magdalene

As one Cistercian priest-monk said, “We love Mary Magdalen because of the way in which the boldness of her love for Jesus made her stare death down beyond all human logic or hope. For her there is no question that the Messiah of Israel, sent to redeem all humankind, and the Beloved of her most intimate heart are one and the same person. She perseveres in weeping at the entrance to the tomb because she perseveres in her love: the presence and actions of Jesus in her own life had taught her that love is indeed stronger than death. Against all odds and logic, in a sort of sublime madness, she clings to her Jesus dead or alive.

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Braveheart Movie Clip: …”And I took it from him and I saw it in his face when I betrayed him on the battlefield.”

THE OPPOSING VICE

DISLOYALTY – The weakness to go back on your word or the cause that you committed to defending.

Examples of disloyalty

When you give your word that you will do something and you don’t do it.
When you make a promise and you go back on it.
When you are a part of a team, job, group and you agree to do a few things as your role and you don’t follow through.
When you know you haven’t kept your promise or your word and you make excuses for it … you were too busy, you forgot, you ran out of time …

The easiest way to appreciate how ugly and hurtful this vice is, is to imagine friends or coworkers doing these things to you when you are depending on them.